"Dude, you dont understand, I love her ! I cant live a moment without her !!"
somebody recently told me this and i was surprised to see how desperate he was to be with his ex-girlfriend.
He told me the whole story, the same old story of one sided love and the other person getting bored of "over-attention", "over-possessiveness", "over-expectations" and finally they end the relationship leaving other person in a misery.
what i wonder is, who really is at fault in the relationship ?
the boy who loved the girl and devoted his self to the girl(without noticing that the girl doesn't love him)?
or
the girl who never actually felt the feeling which the boy felt (may be she tried but it was just not possible)?
It is not possible that the person who was in love couldn't see that the person who he is in a relationship with does not love him. It is also not possible to pretend so well that the other person can not make out whether she is real or fake.
he said, It is not fair on her part to leave me like this. i asked, "is it fair for her to pretend that she loves you even if she doesn't"?
every year there are thousands of teenagers attempting sue-sides
not because, someone whom they loved, left them.
not because, someone cheated on them
but because they made the other person so much important in their life that now their whole life seems pointless. Loneliness eats them up. Light of the life fades away because they have forgotten to love themselves in order to love someone who they just met some time back.
every heart break is a beautiful lesson for our life, it not only teaches us to first believe in ourself but also gives us a new life, new mature perspective to life. It makes us observe the things we never did before and when we come out of it we are better, mature and grown up from within. heartbreaks has a painful yet beautiful positive side, the sooner you learn the better it is for you.
somebody recently told me this and i was surprised to see how desperate he was to be with his ex-girlfriend.
He told me the whole story, the same old story of one sided love and the other person getting bored of "over-attention", "over-possessiveness", "over-expectations" and finally they end the relationship leaving other person in a misery.
what i wonder is, who really is at fault in the relationship ?
the boy who loved the girl and devoted his self to the girl(without noticing that the girl doesn't love him)?
or
the girl who never actually felt the feeling which the boy felt (may be she tried but it was just not possible)?
It is not possible that the person who was in love couldn't see that the person who he is in a relationship with does not love him. It is also not possible to pretend so well that the other person can not make out whether she is real or fake.
he said, It is not fair on her part to leave me like this. i asked, "is it fair for her to pretend that she loves you even if she doesn't"?
every year there are thousands of teenagers attempting sue-sides
not because, someone whom they loved, left them.
not because, someone cheated on them
but because they made the other person so much important in their life that now their whole life seems pointless. Loneliness eats them up. Light of the life fades away because they have forgotten to love themselves in order to love someone who they just met some time back.
every heart break is a beautiful lesson for our life, it not only teaches us to first believe in ourself but also gives us a new life, new mature perspective to life. It makes us observe the things we never did before and when we come out of it we are better, mature and grown up from within. heartbreaks has a painful yet beautiful positive side, the sooner you learn the better it is for you.
Very well said :)
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